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Wow!!!I kinda regret writing the previous post. hehe...all the sudden, everyone like treat me so nice...ask me go here goo there..haha..so funny.But, i dunno wan to say yes, i will go out with them or noo i dont want.
---If say yes ,
1.i scared i will ffk again then they may not ask me to go out again.Then ,
loner again.
2. If i go out with them, i may trouble them,eg, i do somethings they don't like or
they have to 'zau' me or i cannot make decision , they have to wait for me
etc....i dunno lah! fan!
----if say no ,
1. then i will be a bad friend, they keep asking and i always say no, u also will be
sick and tried of having such friend la...
haih....y does life have to be so difficult? y have to think so so much? haih...junie...wats wrong with u?
---If say yes ,
1.i scared i will ffk again then they may not ask me to go out again.Then ,
loner again.
2. If i go out with them, i may trouble them,eg, i do somethings they don't like or
they have to 'zau' me or i cannot make decision , they have to wait for me
etc....i dunno lah! fan!
----if say no ,
1. then i will be a bad friend, they keep asking and i always say no, u also will be
sick and tried of having such friend la...
haih....y does life have to be so difficult? y have to think so so much? haih...junie...wats wrong with u?
posted by junie at 1:28 PM
1 Comments:
One thing, you think too much.
Another, is that you do realise that indecisiveness and FFK being a negative(not so good) point of your character. So why don't you try to change that instead? I know, then you'll ask, if I try to change my character, then I won't be me anymore right? No. If you change, you'll still be you. Since you're a kid, you've been moulded by your parents. So to be influence by your friends to change for the better is something very natural.
It's true that to have a couple of true friends is much more worthwhile than have lots of hi-bye friends. But of course, true friends are much harder to come by. Treasure them. If you are striving to be everybody's friend, you'll have to be prepared for the consequences. It's not easy, and not everyone is cut out to be one like Joe. I feel that there's no need to be envious of people who hang out in a huge gang with many outdoor activities. Loneliness still exist within a huge gang, in fact the feeling may be amplified when you feel that you're in gang where your heart don't belong to. A heart-to-heart chat between a couple of frieds can be much more entertaining and heart-warming.
Anyway, the choice is yours. As a friend, this is the least I can do for you.
Have faith in yourself as well as in you true friends and you'll be at peace.
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