Confusion and perfection!!
I am confused by friends around me...haih..
do you think that ur friends do you a favour just because they expect a favour back from you sometime later?...hmmmm..
i know of one friend who goes all out just to help me..withou expecting anything from him..and he is just such a nice person to everyone ...every girl and every boy he knows...still not attached..( i think maybe got chance, hehe ) but... i know of another friend who helps me...in someway. i thought he was sincere in helping...but little did i realise..that person expected something in return!! onyl got to know about it when we started arguing on some ridiculously minor stuff.but, i must say..it was truly entirely my fault for bringing the subject in..but ..at least i got to know the true coulours of the person. so you treat a person nice out of pure love or do you treat a person nice just to expect something form that person later?let us all just ponder upon that question...
remember : " a slip of the foot you may recover,
a slip of the tongue will last forever !!! "
do you think that ur friends do you a favour just because they expect a favour back from you sometime later?...hmmmm..
i know of one friend who goes all out just to help me..withou expecting anything from him..and he is just such a nice person to everyone ...every girl and every boy he knows...still not attached..( i think maybe got chance, hehe ) but... i know of another friend who helps me...in someway. i thought he was sincere in helping...but little did i realise..that person expected something in return!! onyl got to know about it when we started arguing on some ridiculously minor stuff.but, i must say..it was truly entirely my fault for bringing the subject in..but ..at least i got to know the true coulours of the person. so you treat a person nice out of pure love or do you treat a person nice just to expect something form that person later?let us all just ponder upon that question...
remember : " a slip of the foot you may recover,
a slip of the tongue will last forever !!! "
posted by junie at 1:01 PM
2 Comments:
To help or not to help? Is that the question? Do you need self justification to help a friend? Do you need anything in return? All the answers are NAY! If you need to justify youself to help a friend, then is that person a friend to begin with? If no justification is needed, then you wouldn't be bound to a need to have something in return. When helping or attempting to help a friend, you should not be bound mentally, but physical restrains can't be help. I think that's why some people say it's the thought that counts. I hope this helps you a little in you confusion ;)
that is just so true , pou wee... its just that.. you know..i have got this friend..who keeps on justifying (itself) whenever it does something ofr a friend..i just didnt feel right about it..so i told it..and it rebutted.i mean..it still thought it was right!! i am just so frus with this sorta ppl...so i wrote in the blog,ya know...now..i am not confused at all in what i am doing in my life currently..thanx ya
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